Ted is on staff with Family First as a writer, speaker, and podcast host. He is also the founder of For Us Marriage and has written three books. His most recent book is Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage. Ted is a frequent conference and date night speaker at churches and events across the country, and he is a graduate of Fuller Theological Seminary. He and his wife, Nancie, have four kids and live in Cumming, GA. My adult kids would tell you that growing up, they watched a good marriage. Not a perfect one, but a solid "we really like each other, and we are in this together" kind of marriage. They saw affection. They saw us trying to figure things out together. They saw their mom laugh at my jokes, even when they weren't that funny. Here's what I know. Kids pay attention to everything. They notice things you didn't even know were things. A silent eye roll. The...