When I got married, I had no idea how much I’d need to learn about resolving conflict. All married couples experience conflict. But if we’re actually going to face it, it will require apologizing. Do you know how to apologize to your wife? Some say “your apology needs to be louder than the wrong you did.”

I’ve had to apologize a lot over three decades of marriage. Just like speaking your wife’s love language (as outlined by Gary Chapman in his book The Five Love Languages) is vital, it’s also important to make up with your wife in a way that speaks to her. Here are 5 ways to make it up to her when you’ve done something wrong.


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