Posts by: Family First

5 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex

August 13, 2022 8:51 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Remember when you and your wife were dating? It was really difficult to keep your hands off each other. You wanted her and she wanted you. That felt so good. It was awesome. There’s no better feeling than being desired. After marriage, and particularly after having kids, things have a way of changing. You are...


5 Good Ways to Discipline Your Kids

August 13, 2022 8:49 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

An older mentor told me a story once of how his daughter had made some regrettable decisions in high school and was caught. When he and his wife sat her down to discuss what happened, they asked her what she thought her punishment should be. The punishment she suggested was way worse than what he...


21 Five-Second Connections With Your Kids

August 13, 2022 8:46 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Wondering how to bond with your child? Here’s the random and weird thing that worked for me during a car ride one day: I slowly filled my mouth with water from the bottle and when she wasn’t paying attention, I expertly spewed a thin stream right at my daughter’s earlobe. First came shock. Then a...


4 Things Couples Do That Lead to Short Marriages

August 13, 2022 8:43 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

We live in a world where you can get divorced for almost any reason. For couples who are struggling, marriage may seem hopeless amid constant arguing and brokenness. However, you can have a better marriage—maybe one stronger than you’ve seen to date. But it will take work. It takes considering the seemingly small things that...


7 Ways to Cope with a Neat Freak Spouse

August 13, 2022 8:39 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

I have a confession: I’m a recovering Neat Freak. Early in our marriage, my wife, Susan, helped me to understand that my neat freak tendencies made me more critical of her and our children who maybe weren’t so neat. Susan taught me the importance of valuing relationships more than making sure everything is “just right.”...


4 Decisions You Shouldn’t Make for Your Kids

July 1, 2022 11:37 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Parenting is exhausting, right Mom? I know it’s what we signed up for, but still—it’s a lot. Not only are we responsible for meeting our kids’ basic needs, but we also bear the weight of nurturing them and cultivating their independence. That’s a pretty big deal, so we often find ourselves making most (and sometimes all)...