Posts by: Family First

3 Ways to Negotiate with Children from a Master FBI Negotiator

February 1, 2022 9:54 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Everything is a negotiation, especially with kids. Comedian Jim Gaffigan jokes that his youngest daughter acts as the ring leader for his other four kids and turns bedtime into a hostage negotiation. Reluctantly, Gaffigan caves and gives in to their demands as long as they go to sleep. It’s humorous and true. Negotiating with children...


4 Things You Should Never Say in Front of Your Daughter

February 1, 2022 9:52 am Published by Leave your thoughts

My daughter is just over two years old and her favorite thing to do is whatever I am currently doing. Just the other day, we were in the kitchen together; she was working on her coloring pages as I cooked. I am not a natural at cooking. So, as I became frustrated, I grumbled, “Ugh!...


Teaching Boys How to Handle Their Emotions

February 1, 2022 9:51 am Published by Leave your thoughts

Boys need to remember one thing most of all when it comes to their feelings (especially anger): they always have a choice for how to respond. So says author and pediatrician Meg Meeker. I hear her loud and clear on this because I have a boy on the cusp of puberty (hello, testosterone)—the entry point...


5 Things to Teach Your Kids About Gaming Safely

January 4, 2022 12:49 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

I watched my second grader chatting with someone on a teacher-approved online game—one we paid money for. “Who are you talking to?” I asked her, thinking it was a classmate. “I don’t know,” she said. “Just some person playing.” Eek! Just some person? This was a wake-up call for me; I had let down my...


Seven 4-Letter Words Never to Say to Your Child

January 4, 2022 10:10 am Published by Leave your thoughts

“Hey mama, listen! I can spell _____.” With every letter, my eyes got wide and my jaw dropped. I was pretty sure this colorful word wasn’t on my son’s spelling list. We obsess with the words that come out of our kids’ mouths because words hold power. But there is another collection of “4-letter words”...


5 Questions to Ask When Your Spouse’s Friend is a Problem

January 4, 2022 10:07 am Published by Leave your thoughts

While husbands and wives should be each other’s best friends, we all need other people in our lives as well. But what do you do when you feel like your spouse’s closest friendship with another person isn’t enriching your marriage or when it’s driving a wedge between the two of you? Are your spouse’s friends...