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3 Bad Lessons We’re Teaching Daughters About Guys

December 1, 2021 12:59 pm Published by Leave your thoughts

Most dads I know have joked about cleaning their guns when their daughters bring home their first boyfriends. It’s a trope in country songs. But here’s the thing—no one I’ve ever spoken to literally does this. It’s a hyperbolic way of talking about our desire to protect our daughters. But I’ve noticed something in myself,...


3 Kinds of Baggage That Can Crush Your Marriage

November 1, 2021 11:24 am Published by Leave your thoughts

I’ve attended a lot of weddings over the years. The bride and groom stand at the altar nervous about getting married, having no idea what the future holds. Unfortunately, I’ve seen a number of those couples divorce. I’m convinced one of the biggest things that can crush a marriage is a couple’s unwillingness to deal...


Two Powerful Words That Can Transform Your Relationship

November 1, 2021 11:22 am Published by Leave your thoughts

There are two powerful words among 8 simple phrases that can change your relationships for the better: Thank you. By expressing our appreciation for others, we do two things. We change our attitude to one of appreciation and gratitude, and we affirm others for the good things that they do. In this way, we help...


8 Signs Moms are Doing Great Without Even Realizing It

November 1, 2021 11:19 am Published by Leave your thoughts

I’ve gone through a few jobs in my life: babysitter, tutor, piano teacher, engineer, to name a few. Some I loved, others not so much, but I worked hard at each one with varying levels of success. Motherhood, though, is a unique experience, because it is the one “job” where we cannot fail. It is...


7 Ways to Spoil Your Children

November 1, 2021 11:17 am Published by Leave your thoughts

“Do I have to take a shower tonight?” my son asked with a cringe on his face. There was no P.E. that day and he hadn’t gotten sweaty, so I said, “Nah. But please get in the tub and wash your feet. They’re dirty and dirty feet lead to dirty carpets.” His response was, “Meh, we’ll just...


10 Fun Things to Do with Your Teens

November 1, 2021 11:11 am Published by Leave your thoughts

I love teenagers. For fifteen years I spent week after week creating nights of fun activities for teens. A few things I observed about teenagers is they love to laugh, play, experience adventure, and be heard. If you can create an experience that includes at least one of these you will be off and running....